Judith Okoli, a Nigerian nurse, has drawn public attention for her unexpected decision to leave her job in the United States and settle permanently in Nigeria in search of a more meaningful and balanced lifestyle.
At a time when many Nigerians are eager to migrate abroad for better opportunities, Okoli’s move has surprised many and sparked conversations about happiness, well-being, and what truly defines a good life.
In a video shared online, Okoli expressed her thoughts in Pidgin English, saying, “People keep asking me, ‘Why would you leave America? Are you okay? You want to suffer in Nigeria?’ But I want people to understand that money isn’t everything — at least not for everyone. Not for me.”
She explained that her decision was based on careful thought and a growing realization that financial comfort doesn’t always lead to emotional fulfillment.
“You can earn N100 and still feel miserable — stressed, undervalued, and disconnected. Meanwhile, someone else earns N50 and feels content, spends time with family, sleeps peacefully, and enjoys life,” she said, emphasizing that for her, true wealth lies in quality of life, not just income.
Okoli also voiced concern over how the chase for better pay abroad has strained relationships and broken family bonds.
“Just look at what life in the West is doing to us,” she said. “Families are torn apart — one sibling in Germany, another in Canada, another in Dubai. Some haven’t seen each other in years, all in the name of chasing a better life. But at what cost?”
Her message has resonated with many on social media, opening up broader debates about migration, mental health, and the definition of success in today’s world.
