Each year, thousands of young Nigerians take the bold step to “japa” — leaving the country in search of better prospects, higher education, and a fresh start abroad.
However, behind the glamorous social media posts and excitement of international travel lies a more complex reality — one filled with culture shock, bureaucratic hurdles, and the unexpected struggles of adjusting to life in a foreign land.
In a recent interview with Vanguard, Rolake, a Nigerian who has spent over three years living in Luxembourg, shared valuable advice for anyone considering relocation to Europe.
Her experience sheds light on what many don’t see until they arrive.
If you’re planning to move abroad for study, work, or a fresh beginning, consider this a practical survival guide.
1. Build yourself before you go
Rolake cautions against rushing to leave Nigeria without preparation. She encourages aspiring migrants to focus on self-development and skills acquisition before making the move. In her words, “Don’t just be desperate to leave — be organised, educated, and capable.” Many who travel, she said, are caught unprepared.
2. Certifications are crucial, even for basic jobs
According to Rolake, countries like Luxembourg require proper documentation and certifications for employment, even for jobs like cleaning or kitchen work. While Nigerian qualifications may open some doors, obtaining local certificates can significantly boost your chances of getting hired quickly.
3. Plan finances carefully — especially housing
Understanding rental costs and the overall cost of living is essential. Rolake strongly advises against assuming you can stay with friends or family indefinitely. “It’s misleading to believe someone will accommodate you for free,” she warns. Even close relatives may begin requesting contributions for bills shortly after arrival — often before you’ve secured a job.
4. Save generously and be cautious of being exploited
Having substantial savings before traveling is vital. Rolake recounted how her own brother, who helped her relocate, later began charging her full rent, making her feel like she was working with little return. She urges migrants to prepare for the possibility of financial exploitation, even from trusted connections.
5. Get the facts — don’t be misled
Do not fall for deceptive online claims about how affordable or opportunity-rich a country is. Rolake emphasises the importance of doing thorough research to understand the true cost of living, job market, and legal requirements before moving.
6. Be ready for emotional and social challenges
Social life in Europe, according to Rolake, can be isolating. She described Europeans as often emotionally distant, noting that it’s common for neighbors to keep to themselves and for people to avoid casual conversation. This lack of interaction, she warns, can lead to loneliness and depression if one is unprepared.
7. Stay proactive — the struggle doesn’t end at arrival
Finally, Rolake stresses that relocating is just the beginning. Many Nigerian professionals regret not acquiring new skills or adapting quickly after arrival. She advises newcomers not to become complacent, but to continue growing and adjusting to succeed in their new environment.
