A Nigerian man has taken to X to seek for advice whether to sponsor his longtime girlfriend to UK to come and join him.
According to Oludayo Sokunbi (Deewon) @Oludeewon, the man is scared of bringing his girlfriend to UK because of the negative stories women do to men who sponsored their trips abroad.
https://x.com/Oludeewon/status/1773046284108144723?s=20
Many social media users have commented on the man’s post.
Asabi @MzHorlabc11 wrote: I believe he knows his woman better than the public do. Even though the sad stories makes their way faster to social media, I dont think UK ruin marriages, it rather exposes the issues that were existing in Nigeria IMO, and when the couple cant work around them, they fall out coz they would rather go for each other’s permission to stay here, than resolve issues amicably.
A little kindness @addel_cares said: It depends on who you are married to. My brother is in that UK with his wife and two children, and they are living happily. He went first before inviting his wife. It depends on the woman you have and as a man you will tell yourself the hard truth because you should know her.
Omo Ure @iam__temmyy It’s a 50:50 risk. It might turn out to be the best decision of your life or the worst decision you’ve ever made. The ball is in your court.